Tag: Relationships

  • 20 Signs of Losing Identity in Marriage

    Maintaining your identity in marriage is not something I ever understood until it was too late. When I separated from my first husband at the age of thirty one, I admit I celebrated my freedom; it was exciting because I had never lived alone. It was nice to have a…

  • Our Collaborative Marriage – Why It Works

    But, I recently read an excerpt from a People Magazine interview of the Wade’s on their “collaborative marriage”. My first thought was ‘I still don’t like Gabrielle Union’; my next one was ‘Ha, I like the sound of that’. I was impressed. Some of these reality TV shows portray celebrity…

  • 5 Steps to Gaining Clarity When You’re Feeling Emotionally Overwhelmed

    Without self awareness, you may continue to lash out, only making the situation worse.

  • Should You Let a Good Man Go?

    An Open Letter to Shaniece Hairston

  • 7 Reasons Why You Can’t Let Go of Your Ex

    Divorce is hard. You’ve spent a substantial amount of time as one half of a married couple. Two lives had been intertwined and now you must figure out how to fill the gaps your former spouse previously occupied. In essence, you have to pick up the pieces and put yourself,…

  • Hey Dumb Girl

    Even if you’re no longer HER, sometimes you wear the mask of a smile to cover up all the wounds she inflicted on you.

  • Mirage of a Good Thing

    “You look back over your relationship with a fine-toothed comb, looking for the moment in time when it all changed.”